New Year’s Reflection: Not starting Over, Doing Better

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The New Year always brings what people feel is the opportunity for a fresh start; a feeling of being able to start over fresh, bring about change, create new order in our otherwise hectic lives.  While this is all true, the New Year also brings about a time for one other Very Important something – REFLECTION.

“Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better.” ― Maya Angelou

Reflection on all that is great and that you made it through in the last year.  Reflection offers a great opportunity for growth, and I personally feel that when you don’t set aside time for it, you cheat yourself on the opportunity to be and do better.


My Favorite Things: Garnier Fructis

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I haven’t done one of these in a while, and while at the risk of being premature, I am gonna jump out on the board and take a jump cause I think I am pretty sure on this one being inducted to my favorites.

 

As you know (or should know if you follow me regularly) I have been busy falling in love.  (not with my husband) but what else but MY HAIR? – and it’s NAPTURALITY!!  So this post is a double feature – My favorite things, and Journey to Napturality.

As many naturals do, I have turned into a product junkie, I mean between me and my daughter’s hair I am buying stuff weekly, almost daily (but shhhh, hubby doesn’t know).  While I have dabbled in the more expensive things that I was sure had me destined to break my pockets and have me reverting to PBnJ for dinner (with cute hair nonetheless), I have since been relieved, but it was a sacrifice I was willing to make *shrug*.


My Christmas “Check-List”

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Christmas was wonderful – especially considering, I started the Christmas season off as a total scrooge!

Dinner was good, Great time with family, the kids had a ball – I’d deem it a success.  There was something sweet about this Christmas that I just can’t put my finger on though –outside of my apple cranberry dressing.

This year Hubbs’ and I had to “check” ourselves; you know reevaluate what we were doing wrong.  Year in and Year out Christmas comes and we load up on gifts and just stuff, the kids open it, shed a few “ohh’s and ahhh’s, and then set everything aside.  This was truly evident last year when after all of efforts our daughter came in the room the day after Christmas and had the nerve to spit out the dreaded “B” word – BORED!   Besides disbelief we realized we were missing the mark.


Whose really failing here?

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I’m no genius, heck I might not even be really smart, but I do know that I am no dummy, and I can apply logic to things and understand them – but this one…yea, it’s beyond me; I just don’t understand it and I won’t.

Can someone explain to me, how these executives (that are well paid) have drawn the conclusion that shortening the kids school day and taking away all of their activities is gonna improve an already failing situation?  And the situation is failing not because of the kids, but because we – the adults – are failing them.

These are the same executives who live in the city but send their kids outside of the city for their education. Why? cause they can afford it – at the taxpayers’ expense.  These are the same executives that I have not heard of mentioning decreasing or even freezing their own pay, but rather cutting the kids resources.


You don’t have to listen….but I am gonna shout!

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For the last couple weeks, I have been feeling kind of “blah” Concerned.  It seems with each week, it has kind of went further and further into a state of grey.  Yesterday my husband asked me, “are you depressed?” and I wasn’t sure how to answer him.  I mean I have been kinda down, irritable, and overall restless; I don’t even understand it.  You would think I would be on high – just got married, two kids that drive me crazy, but love me, a husband who thinks the world of me (and shows me often), family in perfect health and in these times  – Thank GOD – I am gainfully employed.

Crazy part, I was on high Wooden Guitar– a cloud, even; and as I was explaining to my good friend and ill stretch and say my prayer partner (although she has not been made aware of the title), I feel like I was on a cloud and I literally fell on my face and can’t seem to pick it up.